February 6, 2017​

Minimalism does not have to be about a certain number of items you own or a self-centered attitude of doing the bare minimum. It is different for everyone and can be applied to any stage of life.

Does being a minimalist mean you have a boring home? Quite the opposite. Sure, going through items to trash or donate can become tedious, but once the clutter is gone what’s left are the things most meaningful to you. Minimalism does not mean stripping away personality and depriving yourself. All of the home décor I own, with the exception of some holiday decorations, is out on display. These pieces have a memory or hold significance to my family in some way. No “conversation piece” is needed on my coffee table. I can easily talk about what’s hanging on my walls.

I feel better letting go of possessions that I do not use or no longer enjoy. I think it is selfish and wasteful to hold on to and store something that someone else could use or appreciate. What I own and use regularly makes me appreciate those things even more now.

Minimalism frees up room for what is important to you. Instead of filling up my days with tedious maintenance or cleaning, I can focus on what I cherish most. It is not limited to material possessions. We are also very careful in choosing what social events, outings or extra activities my family is involved in. I no longer feel like I am racing around trying to get things done.

I feel more content not having so many distractions keeping me from living a life with purpose. It is a life of simplicity. I am more focused on my family, spirituality and helping others. Less is more. 

Liam's drawing of the two of us.